A Nigerian Mental Health consultant, Nmanti Umoh, was born a dwarf, raped consistently from age 2 by two family members, she gave birth to twins from rape by a mentor, chained and held captive by a Rev’d “for being a child witch” until she managed to escape.
According to Nmanti Umoh, 21 years ago, she was raped by her employer, and she eventually got pregnant and gave birth to wonderful twin baby boys and 23rd of May 2020 marked the birthday of her sons.
Sending Birthday wishes to her dear Twin Sons; KanKan and Dada, she wrote:
“21 Years Ago, a 15 year old seeking to find her path was brutally raped by her employer, all she had to show was a twin birthed 9 months after.”
“Hid behind the childhood abuse, layers and layers of Rejection, often criticized, broken, bruised, she refused to be a statistic and became the standard to many more young men and women who would be battered, abused…. TODAY…. the evening and the morning and it’s the 21st Birthday of my sons. Everything has changed since the blood.”
“Happy Birthday KanKan and Dada.”
“IF I were allowed a choice of my battles, I would have chosen simpler conflicts but no, this life chose me and I will live it fully.”
“I have made a lot of mistakes but each time I look at both of you, I knew I did the right thing to keep you even when I didn’t know just how.”
“To every single teenage mom, to every young person who has been themed a mistake and misfit… here I stand your validation that “No one and nothing has the power to define who you become but you!”
“Choose what you will and desire to be.. well.”
“To thousands of young men and women around Africa and the world who would be raped, battered, abused and denied a fair hearing just because they see us as kids.”
“You are not voiceless, you won’t forever be hushed. They will hear us.”
“You are bruised and beautiful, When you think of the Rapist Declare:
“I forgive you
I let you go
You inspire me
To stand up against RAPE
To speak up and tell my story
I will do better
I am proud of me
Thank you“
“unforgiveness is too heavy to carry around with me. I cannot carry you and grow.”
“Now Breathe!!”