Read Heartbreaking story of a Lady :

“I blame my mother for everything I am going through right now, because right now no man wants to settle down with me, and I don’t know why. All my mates are married with children. I am the only one left. I’ll be 38 in the next 2 months, no child, no husband.

Here’s how it all started. 15 years ago, I travelled to Libya, from Libya to Italy, from Italy to Germany. I started with cleaning work, and later I started taking care of old people.

So after I gathered some money, I sent it to my mother to build a house so she and my siblings would be comfortable, because we didn’t have a house.

My mother told me to forget about the house and bring our firstborn over there. I agreed and brought her over. My sister started schooling, and after school, she got a job. So I started saving again and sent money to my mother to buy land, and my mother bought land.

After that, I told her I had seen someone who wanted to marry me. My mother said, why would I be thinking about marriage now? If I marry, who will continue to cater for my siblings?

She said we should finish the house we were building and also help my siblings before thinking of marriage. I started doing two jobs to quickly meet up and finish building the house.

I told her again that I had seen someone who wanted to marry me, and she said, why am I in a hurry to get married? That I am still very young and beautiful, that I haven’t even established her, and I don’t need marriage now.

She also said two of my siblings were still in Nigeria, and didn’t I know that if I marry, the man might not let me do these things again?

I struggled again, collected a loan, and brought my younger brother over. Immediately he got here, the first thing he did was to get married. Even my elder sister, immediately she finished her master’s, she got married and started complaining that she has a child and there is little she can do for them at home.

So I told my mother, you were the one who told me to bring my siblings over here so that when they get here, they can also assist you and the rest of our siblings. But now they have settled down and are married, claiming they have responsibilities and can’t do anything for now. Now I am the only one left unmarried.

I’m 37 now, no husband, no child, and my mother is still telling me that I should look well, that I shouldn’t marry a greedy man, that I should marry a man who won’t deny me from doing things for my family. I listened to her.

Now that I am ready to settle down after doing everything they wanted, men are not coming for me again. I don’t know what to do anymore.

When I cried out to my mother, she said if I don’t give birth, it’s not a crime, I can adopt a child, and that marriage is not an achievement…” –37-year-old woman blames her mother for years of sacrifice, revealing how family pressure left her unmarried and childless after working abroad.

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